No I am not mad. Or castrated. Don't tell me I don't know what I am missing, I know very well :) From Tawnee Stone or Jordan Capri, from Priya Rai to Mindy Vega, from celebs you know, to "Hi my name is Shanelle" from pics to live cams to downloads, from ezgalleries to dailymotion, from sexylk to redtube. Enough said, I know what i am talking about. I think, the question bigger than WHY i stopped was HOW I stopped. The question everybody who passes the WHY gets to. Well actually i have been praying about it for quite a long time. But that's not enough to stop. I found a book called "When Man's Eye Wonders". Porn, according, is not pure biological need, but brought on half by boredom, and half by unfulfilled ambitions and frustrations we have. The moment we say, yes, I am going to get that job I want, the moment we believe, yes, I am going to go out with that person I really want to one day, we have won half the battle. The rest of the battle, is living through the boredom that it leaves you with, which is hard. So why stop watching porn? Well, if your Christian, there are lots of reasons why "you are committing adultery just by looking etc., etc.,) If you are NOT, all is still not well. From personal experience, women in relationships are normally hurt when they find you watch porn.
Also from experience, it just does not let you see women body, mind and soul, you se them as body and your trying to convince yourself about the rest. Where mind is involved, that is just added aphrodisiac. I'm sleepy but want to finish this. Also it's suposed to mess up your sex life in marriage, not enhance it. But I haven't been married yet to know. There was something else. Oh yes, you also stop hating yourself for doing it. This is not a debate on whether porn is good or bad, but how to stop. But feel free to comment.
Please note that i tried, and i went back for some time after stopping. Though it matters little to ho god sees me, I will do my level best to stop. And fail. Wonder if a man can ever stop completely. Wish me luck
Friday, June 20, 2008
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3 comments:
A very debatable topic... but all in all, it's good if you managed to stop and stick to it...:)
either way, it is a sin in many religions, cultures etc.....
we can definitely do without porn.. if there's a will...
I used to watch on and off too.. but not anymore..:)
porn is also one thing that highly corrupts society....
and I think the fact that you try is what counts in God's eyes.. :)
I agree with your ideas =( whichever way you look at it, it's bad either as a sin, or just by using people as adverts =( and yes, I guess it creates breaks in relationships, unless the relationship is built on trust =)
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